When I was a teacher, I was called in for a meeting about a new program that had been suggested for my school. We were given a brochure highlighting what the program was about. The principal then asked for everyone’s opinion. I was sitting next to her on the right side. She asked the person to her left to begin. He started by saying how great the proposal was and that it should be pursued. Each person after that extolled the virtues of the new program that they eagerly awaited for the school. And then it was finally my turn.
Much to the dismay of the others I said that the program was the worst I ever heard of and that we should not go ahead with it. I gave my reasons. Everyone else at the table lowered their heads as if in prayer. No one wanted to make eye contact with me or the principal.
All the principal said was, “Thank you for coming everyone.” The meeting was over.
Incidentally, the program was not undertaken and nothing was ever said about it again.
It’s OK to be honest. As a matter of fact, it’s essential that you be honest even if it doesn’t seem “correct” at the time. You never know…you might be right!